I should not be getting testy about this topic, regardless, I am.
This 'conspiracy' thinking, that EVERYTHING is a front or distraction for something else is getting out of hand, and while this is the correct forum for it, please, understand this.
Forget all the other political examples that have been mentioned here and concentrate on the reason for the Same Sex Marriage (SSM) plebescite:
It's NOT got anything to do with anything, except a legal and emotional fair go.
While there are blanket de-facto laws in place, and these are what SSM folks are forced to be satisfied with, they are not equal to what the traditional male-female partnership called marriage, offers.
There are some things which are legally binding, which are already covered in legislature, but claiming SSM couples have the same rights as straight couples is BULL. They are not.
Why?
Because SSMs cannot get married legally in this country, the laws pertaining to a 'married couple' and all of the automatic benefits bestowed on a male-female union sanctioned by not just the church, but by civil union celebrants, do not apply to them.
Without this married status, blood kin have jurisdiction over many SS partners, when it comes to illness, medical treatment and the loss of a partner to death, and the subsequent Will provisions made by the deceased.
Imagine your loved one's family did not approve of your being gay/bi/trans etc.
Imagine your loved one ended up in hospital, and their disapproving family actively prevented you from visiting them, by stating to the hospital Drs that you are NOT family, and therefore, are to be escorted off the premises...
Imagine your partner had a long-standing agreement with you that they would accept a blood transfusion, as they did not want to be part of that religion that forbids it... and then they ended up in hospital, unconscious and unable to speak for themselves.
Imagine if there was a good chance medically that they would die without a blood transfusion, and that their religious family, as legal next-of-kin, actively prevented that medical transfusion treatment because of their views, actively over-riding the wishes of their relation, unable to stand up for their own life and health decisions, and ignoring yours.
Imagine, then, that your loved one died.
Imagine how you would feel if the family barred you from having anything to do with your loved one's last wishes and funeral.
Imagine if they contested the deceased's Will, and because you had no legal standing as a married spouse/widow, contested the Will and won (as they usually do).
Imagine how you would feel, feeling as if you were invisible, unable to help your SS partner have what they wanted, even in death.
THIS is the reality of EQUALITY with straight couples, and why the current system is destroying the lives of any LGBTQ folk who have had the horrific situation described above, thrust upon them.
The current laws only go so far, and cannot over-ride the wishes of blood relatives, unless those partners have the security of the legal term MARRIAGE.
Not all SS people have intolerant family who would actively go out of their way to make their SS partner's life hell, but plenty do. I know. I've seen people I know and love get put through the wringer first hand. Two of them suicided afterwards, as everything they loved and had worked for was destroyed by their partner's family.
None of these laws will change to affect straight couples who are married or want to get married.
If you believe all this c**p about how it will 'destroy the sanctimony of marriage' let me remind you that there are millions of straight married people out there who steal, abuse their wives/husbands/kids, have affairs, drive drunk, murder, indulge in paedophiia, sex trafficking, drug smuggling and a dozen other unsavoury and illegal practices, then you need to stop repeating rhetoric and educate yourselves. Being straight does not confer on you some mystical status that all you do is sanctified.
If you really believe that what happens in the confines of a same-sex relationship if marriage is allowed in this country, as it is in a plethora of other advanced and equitable countries, will affect your straight marriage... you need to wake up. Do you care what your other straight, married friends and family do in their lives? Not usually, I hope. So why should you give a toss about same-sex couples if they are allowed to legally marry? It's the same thing. Bitching about other people's lives puts you right up there with teenage schoolkids and playground bullies and bored losers who spend their time online complaining about whatever flavour of the week topic enters their spiritually and morally empty heads.
OH, and one last thing. If you yourself are married, adore your partner to the moon and back and couldn't imagine life without them... remember why you committed yourself to that life-long contract called marriage.
It's possibly because you love them.
Denying others the legal security and emotional support that you already have makes you look uncaring and callous.
Not everyone is religious and wants/needs the OK of the Church to be happy.
If you are religious, and believe in the 'God is love' thing, on a human level, this is the time to apply that learning.
And just so you know, same-sex marriages were in existence in many cultures LONG before this new-kid-on-the-block called Christianity came along, and claimed that the only true bonds were to be between a man and a woman (Romans, Greeks, Mesopotamians, Egyptians, Japanese Buddhists, American First Nation peoples, Polynesian races, etc.).
Look up 'Dog in the manger' and that's what this whole 'no' vote seems to me.
If you consider yourself a good and just person, Christian or not, you need to look outside your own beliefs and experiences and see the ugly truth of the world as we know it, and not just believe what your read on Facebook, and see in the incredibly biased and politically-controlled media. Do your own homework. Talk to someone who isn't straight and SEEK answers from those directly affected.
And if at the end of the day, you still can't get off your pedestal of perfection and insist on your right to decry another's life... then you lack the understanding needed to make a fair and equitable decision.
Some facts:
The history of same-sex marriage in Australia includes its express prohibition by the Howard Government in 2004 and numerous subsequent attempts to legalise it at both federal and state/territory levels, none of which have succeeded as of 2017. Although a same-sex marriage law was passed by the Australian Capital Territory in 2013, it was struck down by the High Court on the basis of inconsistency with federal law.[1] The Court's decision closed the possibility of concurrent state or territory laws that would allow same-sex marriage where federal law did not.
As of 2017, there have been 22 unsuccessful attempts in the Federal Parliament to legalise or recognise same-sex marriage under federal law. The current Prime Minister, Malcolm Turnbull, supports same-sex marriage. The Turnbull Government went to the 2016 federal election with a policy to put the issue of same-sex marriage to a plebiscite, and was narrowly re-elected, though the legislation to establish the plebiscite was rejected by the Australian Senate in November 2016.
The voluntary Australian Marriage Law Postal Survey will be held to ascertain respondents' views on whether same-sex marriage should be introduced to Australian law. The final tally of votes from the postal plebiscite poll is expected to be completed by November 15, 2017. If the plebiscite is in favour of SSM, the government has said that a bill legalizing SSM will be introduced in the House in late November or early December, where it is expected to pass. (Parliamentarians are not bound by the results of the poll, but many have promised to respect the final outcome.) If the final tally is opposed, Turnbull has said no bill will proceed to a parliamentary vote.
Source:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_o ... _Australia
Historical Same Sex Marriage
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_o ... sex_unions
http://www.randomhistory.com/history-of ... riage.html
End of rant.