...as a Moderator within these forums I do not wish to get into a slanging match with an Admin in an open forum... but I find it extremeley difficult to just sit by and say nothing whatsoever regarding the banishment of both
"Marius" and
"Opus" from these forums just because of their line of questioning being considered to be a tad bit uncomfortable for certain members within the forums...
...as far as I'm concerned... banishing people from this website and these discussions is a form of censorship that just goes towards validating the questions that the skeptics have posted... to say that I am bitterly disappointed in this action is an understatement!... I have read and re-read all of Marius's and Opus's posts from beginning to end a few times and to be quite honest cannot see where they have overstepped the line enough to incur the penalty of a total ban from these forums!...
...sure Marius posted a cartoon of the pot calling the kettle black (with an offensive swear word included in the text) in the original...
"Dean V Yowie thread" ...but Joe gave him a caution about that when he said...
joe wrote:
Regarding people being banned from sites - post any more offensive language Marius, and you will be from this one.
...Marius responded with and acknowledged his indescretion with this response...
Sure. Though a polite request would have been nicer than a threat. Would have got the same result.
Is harsh language a worst offense than the patronizing, personal attacks (not against me) that other members seem to employ with impunity?
...that should have been the end of it... the matter was dealt with... but to ban him (over 7days later) for that and
"trolling" ???... (which I have yet to come to grips with as being associated with causing untold upheaval and disruption of a website)... I honestly cannot see why he should've been banned for that???... I have seen nothing but politeness from both Marius and Opus throughout the time that they have posted!... sure Marius may have said a couple of innuendo's regarding the event...
If you inhale deep enough, you can just catch the faint scent of rodent.
Perhaps Dean is tied up by the legal people at A Current Affair, or Today Tonight.
...but he was pulled into check for that too by somebody under the name of...
"Sad" (hmmm...I wonder who that is?)... and Marius replied with...
Example 1) well perhaps a tad snippy. I will have to watch myself in future.
Example 2) Perhaps my suggestion i is correct. It is a long bow to call this patronizing or personal attack. perhaps your sensibilities are more refined than mine. That wasnt personal attack either. It was a guess based on your astute observations.
If he has sold his story, he may well be under contractual obligation to maintain media silence till the story breaks. Perhaps this is a reasonable assumption? I havent heard anything that absolutly refutes it.
Thankyou for your input, however. I will consider it in the future.
...again... he acknowledged his indescretions and took them on board... in passionate debates regarding amazing topics such as Dean's encounter for instance... people are going to write things that with hindsight maybe shouldn't have been written but that is what conflicting views of controversial subjects invokes at times!...
...Stainmaster posted this to Marius acknowledeging his response...
thanks marius for understanding and taking it on the chin thats what being an adult is all about. Cant wait for the sound file
...I haven't read anywhere either where at any stage within his posts that Opus has sworn at all... let alone intentionally degrade anyone to warrant a ban!... as far as I can see... he has been equally as polite as anybody else within the forums while debating this subject matter... again... him being accused of
"trolling" too has me shaking my head and wondering where we are heading as a forum area in regards to censorship...
...I'm pretty sure that a lot of people do not realise that
"Marius" is in fact...
"James Randi" ... a well known and yet very controversial skeptic that has gone onto TV shows and websites all around the world and has voiced his opinion on many occasions before on many ... many subjects before and will no doubt continue to do so... AYR being no exception!... this is his website below... does the face look familiar???...
http://www.randi.org/site/index.php/abo ... randi.html
...myself... I feel that having the opinion of somebody that has been around the traps for such a long period of time would do nothing but benefit any website!!!...
...I even remember when James Randi was literally thrown off of the
"Don Lane Show" by Don Lane himself for questioning a woman by the name of
"Doris Stokes" on her ability of being able to talk to the dead relatives of audience members by simply asking polite and yet simple questions on how she does it... when she was unable to give any inkling on how and felt uncomfortable about it... Don Lane stepped in and promptly to James Randi to...
"P off" !!!... just because the questions were continued being asked and seeking an answer... and all these years later... it seems like history repeating itself to me...
...sure...
"skeptics" annoy the hell out of people... but they are a vitally needed part of any forum whatsoever to keep them fresh and alive... having an entire website of
"believers" only leads to a suffocated enviroment where nobody dares to question what a lot of people are thinking in the back of their minds... but are not game enough to say... skeptics are the people that
ARE game to say what people are secretly thinking at times... that's why they are needed otherwise we may as well become a cult and blindly obey peoples statements as the final word and dare not question them!...
...Dean himself didn't seem to have any problem at all with either Marius or Opus when he came on and posted this...
Please everyone be polite and reasonable. Absolutely no reason to become heated.
Joe is doing the first report - Mikka second, and then I will do a large one with pictures. Joe has a great print of it, the one that got me.
If we wanted to make money out of this or have personal gain, we would have ran to the media for publicity. We're no longer in that mind space and have no need for it. Purely want to tell the facts and inform on this site now. That’s all.
My current and past crew members over more than a decade are more than happy to step up to the plate to vouch our integrity.
Truth will be told........ Soon.......
...if Dean or any of the others involved in the incident had a problem with what was being said by Marius and Opus... none have posted angry responses...(as a matter of fact... Seeker... we haven't heard tickety-boo from you yet mate...you are strangely quiet up until now... are you on holidays or something mate...I'd like to hear what you have to say on this matter my friend???) ...
it seems to me that Dean... being the head of reason.. has seen it for what it is... people asking uncomfortable probing questions and that's it!!!!!... no paranoia... no hysterics... no
"they're-out-to-get-me" type of behaviour pattern setting in there eh???... maybe others should take a leaf out of Dean's book and use their
"head of reason" and re-instate both Marius and Opus now that the anger has subsided and many have now cooled off???... doing that would lift the profile of these forums to an even higher state than it has ever managed to achieve before???...
...when this was posted in one of the more heated moments within these forums...
If some forum moderators dont have a problem with sceptics/constrained philosophers asking ad nauseum the same variation of questions..over and over...and over..and over ..or dont know how sceptics "work"...or dont realise the sceptics have zero interest in "balanced" little chats...or if some mods are "always too busy" to spend any time answering the sceptics games..sorry.."legitimate" questions..then thats not my problem either..
...from my own personal point of view I find that statement to be more insulting than anything that has been written so far!... I will not answer that within this post as I think that it is inappropriate... I will post my response to that within the
"Adminstration and VIP Area" section not open to public viewing... that's where it should be discussed I believe... (if I am not posting anymore within the near future... that is not of my own doing I can assure you)...
...I am certainly not the only person that is making a statement regarding Marius and Opus's ban... a few regular well established posters are of the same opinion... I beleive that somebody needs to review what has happened with this and perhaps lift the ban and give these two people a second chance to put worthwhile lines of questioning back into the forums... if they misbehave... nothing short of a permanent life ban would suffice... as I said... Dean and the others involved have had no problem with them... so what is the problem???... cheers... Stickyfingers.